What happened to your so-called friends? The one that you helped moved, the one that you taught how to drive, the one that you helped when they needed it?

Were you used by them? Did they just vanish after they felt satisfied with the help you gave.  After they befriended you, they used some of your resources to their advantage. You think you’re being helpful to them, but in reality, you’re being used by them.

Do you wonder how they are doing in life? Are they still partying every weekends? Did they find a better job? Or maybe continue their education?

Don’t be sad that they’re not going out with you or partying with you. Be glad that they’re not anymore. Why? Because they’re the friends that you don’t want to associate with.

Have a friend that can gain from both. Have a mature friend that is focused on life.

You know what sucks? They will suddenly appear and be your friend again if they need your help, once again.

Ask yourself, are they really your friends?